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    on the last one, it became fairly clear when the subject came up, that this girl was also one who did, and didn’t really want to have any interest in me. actuality, in spite of your attempts to express your feelings to him he continues to ignore it. if you want to be more than that, you need to tell him.” you are far too presumptuous in assuming where the breakdown was between these two people you know nothing about. i am definitely going to take your advice and try spreading myself around more and not focusing on one woman even if there is a particular one that i am interested in! you are right to be wary when she is a party girl who seeks a lot of male attention. in general conversation, you probably would not be able to tell that i am consciously considering your non-verbal cues (nvc). what you’re doing is lowering, and increasing your own. read this thread, lots of good stuff here, susan nice blog, awesome patience in your responses. dawned on me at some point (as a said, just a couple years ago) that the problem was mainly that i simply came off as being too easy. you can’t be expected to change for anyone else, you can’t be expected to take responsibility for how men will react to you, that’s all men’s obligation to you right? question though: you said that humans naturally want what they can’t have and i completely agree with that.’m not saying that having random sex is wrong, but i am saying that engaging in casual hookups means you must accept the extraneous sh*t that comes with being at your most vulnerable, for a fleeting evening, with another person who may end up sucking. women dig the brooding loner archetype, so i think you can make that work for you. and if you are needy, he’ll pick up on it sooner or later – no amount of texting rules will hide it. lady in the article was describing a situation when she was trying to start something serious, not casual sex, like you are describing. then he told me on the phone one night “i just want you to know that if we ever did have sex, that i wouldn’t have sex with other girls” even that itself can be confusing. you obviously had a different upbringing, because i can tell you from personal experience, if your childhood was like that, you would not think the “nice guy routine” is a player tactic. kind of comment always gives me a sense that the commenter is a child, refusing to take responsibility for herself, oh no of course you should never change and become a better person, the entire world should bend over to meet all your needs, being in charge and doing all the work is men’s business right? don’t ignore her a lot, you’ll hurt her feelings. if i want to talk to you im calling you or texting. from a girls point of view, we become very attached and want to be held comforted assured after we have opened up emotionally to a guy. find your website really useful and helping me understand love and relationship better. let me say up front that many lovely women get blindsided by a bad boy once. if you’re eating with her, tell her she has something (food) smudged on her lip (it embarrasses them)., but i encourage you to post this question in the forum (find it on the menu bar). i have watched youtube videos on men giving women dating advice, i’ve bought books, and sought out friends. we do reject people sometimes and it’s insulting perhaps, but also unavoidable, as long as you don’t lead them on. don’t guys like you or pay attention to you?@confusedyou know i don’t think they’re attracted to “assholes” they’re just attracted to guys with confidence who know what they’re doing.% of the human race seems to have little to zero grasp that a relationship isn’t a ‘thing’ you can have, hold, or possess; it’s not a security blanket or a vehicle you get “in” and ride forever after. but when they emotionally hurt me, i still end up staying! it sounds to me like you are having sex just for the fun of it, and not want a relationship which is a different situation what so ever. i was under the impression that if you “hooked-up”, you were (in effect) precluding a relationship. he is not married also and he is not he type of guy to ell everyone what happened between us i can assure you that. i stated earlier is not from hollywood but god, and to all the people who think that finding someone special won’t happen, and is crap, i feel sorry for you.’ you could even do it by text, if you’re scared of the face to face. i don’t think it’s bad to have sex with a man if you feel really good about it and him and have fun. are not the drama princesses whatever your friends or parents may say. put another way, fishing is no fun if you catch a fish every time you throw your hook into the water. when you say to a nice guy “know when to step back” that means nothing to them, and is also contextual. to know if your boyfriend isn’t attracted to you anymore. i also wind up dating women who are in my opinion definitely not good enough for me so i don’t go on more dates.) away until you’ve got a guy having the kind of convos with you that you really want. it’s not necessarily in what you do but your mindset. he was waiting to pick her up in her little truck she worked so hard as a waitress to keep up the payments on, as well as school tuition. when you’re talking with a girl you like very much, you’re very much afraid of failure and so you try to avoid all risk. the couple posts on here i’ve read so far are right on.

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    . well… you cant expect the outcome that comes from having sex like a woman. “the last time i saw you, we had no clothes on!’m mixed up – if you are “friends with benefits,” what can possibly do to treat you unfairly? you know who you are, and i want you to tell me why you do it. who live in more populated places are lucky, since the chances of you running into your own “that guy” are probably slim. you are ready to settle down with a sweet guy to have babies with, why not have fun with a jerk? seriously, what’s so hard about picking up a phone and dialing your number? you don’t need to be a jerk, but you must be perceived as strong and dominant. you say “give in too soon”, though…i don’t really know the personal circumstances with your situation, but the truth is that a guy will know whether or not he wants a relationship before he gets involved with you, and however awesome you might be, it will still be irrelevant if he’s not looking for a relationship in the first place. thing is, *you* can’t do anything about someone else’s internal conflict. you said nothing about nice guys and instead indicated you will make the bad boy player have to try harder next time.. she didn’t use sex as a bargaining tool and doesn’t need you doing the heavy on her… men disappoint. view this video please enable javascript, and consider upgrading to a web browser that supports html5 video. january, i decided to call up a blonde who i had terrible crushes on as a sophomore and junior. and don’t try to let any man tell you you are wrong for being who you are! if he likes you, i don’t think that’s too much demand., that’s how i ultimately ended up dating a purportedly “nice guy,” who – as it turns out – was an impressively skilled player.– it takes two to tango: if you’re in a relationship, you’re *participating* in a relationship. i just was trying to expand the relationship to get to a certain point where we both can really open up to each other. and how do you “dump” someone you aren’t dating? want to get an insight to this situation i’m in, i told this girl i liked her, we’ve met around 2 months ago, but she’s never said no to having a relationship with me, she wants to be good friends and when i said there’s no chance of you being my girlfriend she didn’t like that idea, is this her being indecisive? you want him to do everything and when he gets tired of it, you can’t understand the problem. if you spend 5 hours fishing and catch one fish, you cherish that fish because of all the hard work you put in trying to catch it. basically, it’ people who are looking for a one-sided pseudo-relationship set-up and tried to act like i was insecure to want more or to want *appropriate* level of attention and time invested (less).“:it makes me upset and needy and probably does make him run off, which is somewhat understandable” no. if one or both of you wants to go exclusive it obviously becomes an issue. or try telling her directly that you want her – this is dominant. choice, but i’d be insulted after i just gave myself to that man, but hey i like your take in life. oh and tracy love your comment… thank you for putting it out there.. but we women have rights too and just because we choose to finally give in to you and also what we like, we shouldn’t just be at your wim or disposal., when you inspire a man to see you as a confident, fulfilled woman with plenty to offer other than physical pleasure, he doesn’t treat you like an option., you have to worry about how you should interact with him, which adds an unnecessarily uncomfortable layer to the already anxiety-inducing social world in which we all must operate.,to all the people who think that “god” exists, and isn’t crap, i feel sorry for you. i’d have asked her out, but there was a little hint of immorality in her, and i did not trust myself with her; i might get burned up in the heat. thing is it’s really difficult to tell if he’s being that nice and sweet and open with you because he really likes you or because he just wants sex., i agree with most of your post especially with the theme that people are having unrealistic expectations. hostility is driving people away and keeping you from even having an opening for that… drop the unconscious compulsion to pick fights and stir up negativity… it’s only hurting you and blocking your happiness. and if you did, how and when exactly do you think you would do that?) you have many other things to do first, making money. i met a guy at a young age and grew to just crush on him. don’t signal your interest too strongly or too early – a woman wants to earn the affection of a man.“i have lost a lot of weight, gone more feminine”, sounds good for you in general if you’re looking for a relationship. no woman should put up with this unless it is what she wants (i doubt how many women really want or accept this behaviour). use his jumbotron test – if you’re not comfortable with seeing your texts on a public jumbotron you’re sending the wrong texts. you’ll get a bunch of responses there, which should prove helpful. if you have difficulty reading subtle cues than come right out and ask her what she wants. i don’t believe you want that — i have to imagine that deep down… if you’re really honest with yourself… if you really think about it… you’d really like to be loved, accepted, wanted, desired, etc. i love it that you were able to determine through trial and error how to attract women.

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    as result, you make sex as the prize, not something natural, and, when he got the prize, he finished his “competition”.“if he keeps being stubborn, i can really assume to think he’s gay”, or you could just ask…you could, just try “screw your courage to a sticking-place”* and askor, try googling “iois women” indicators of interest. if you see him at a party and he tries to talk or initiate another hookup, what do you do? sometimes you gotta kick a guy outta bed immediately after or else they get ideas. he just comes up to me when sometimes i’m just laying in bed and he just comes up to me and says, “do you want some? what kind of strategy would you recommend i work on cultivating to help resolve these issues and what type of girl should i be looking for so i know i can trust her? people you query on net forums only get your side of things, and clearly you’ve lost your objectivity the second you hit the send key anyway, and nobody can read the mind of whatever guy you’re referring to. thing is, how do you get a woman to want you in the first place? the two most important things you hit on, imo are these:1. encourage you to read as much as you can about female psychology. casual hookups offer no closure in any sense of the word, and nobody ever knows how to behave. i would have got burned up in the heat, too much temptation to handle. there are signs to look out for – players really do show red flags if you’re paying attention. only reason why women end up in this kind of situation is because men were lying and deceitful in the 1st place 🙂 , trying to get a woman to have sex and than ignore her, nevermind the i love yous, the respect and whatever.  i took a look at what he was so amped up about. tie it up: your frequency of texting doesn’t matter if you’re truly not needy. on the flip side, if there was a woman that was in a relationship/marriage and she was the one who cheated (and then the guy withdrew after that)… i don’t know… i still don’t think it would be because he lost respect… it might be more about him not wanting to get mixed up into drama if her husband/boyfriend finds out. here is a refresher:having been brought up in a single parent household by my feminist mother, i learned very early on the importance of respecting women. it’ll take some practice, but you’ll learn it eventually. just say ‘you know, i think i have feelings for you – is that just me or do you like me that way too? i like how you don’t have an agenda and just enjoy the men you like for who they are. and yeah, of course guys want sex, so if you think that sex is the only bargaining chip you have then you will always feel paranoid about men using you. for some reason they think if you listen you’re “desperate”. you’re on the borders of pua *oh gasp*, so watch where you go and make your own judgement on what you find. is he standing you up to sleep with other girls? you need to see yourself as the proverbial goddess on earth, a spectacle to behold… a woman that has that certain “extra something” that makes you rare and unlike the rest. they’re supposed to have no boundaries (because they’re “casual”), but then weird unspoken boundaries pop up that you’re just supposed to know. we agreed we weren’t out for sex but the 3rd we met up we had sex. a week has past by with him texting me once or twice each day, asking how are you and any plans for the weekend. then at age 18, lived with a guy 6 years older than her, for a couple years. don’t make yourself crazy by reaching out to him. sex is what it is and shouldnt be the only deciding factor when a guy chooses his woman and if is then he is probably a jerk and you don’t want him anyway. if he’s not, you’re not gonna make him commit by having sex and then stressing out and trying not to act clingy, although that would be natural for you. if you want to keep things casual, there’s no dumping required, because it’s no-strings. guys don’t care about that if they like you they will be happy to hear. these men should go pickup a woman at a bar or a hooker and leave the good girls who want a real lasting relationship alone. as men must learn to be men again, your grandpa did not need gimmicks like pua. don’t understand how you can be open like this and not be worried about std s and hiv, how do you not worry if the guys messing with others? your own good, ask yourself this question, “if a man wrote that women made him sick… that he hopes that she gets an std… that he’s sick of women and that women are all evil abusers… would you want anything to do with that guy? and you really dont bother with them, guess whos gonna be calling you back after a few days? if you do, he’ll think you want something more. it’s like wanting a relationship or any semblance of exclusivity automatically makes you some kind of uptight stepford. probably thinks he’s giving more than you are and is pulling back and pretty soon he will feel hurt and frustrated that you turned out to be a complete waste of time., i dislike most of eric charles’advice because it always tells the woman what she is doing wrong… the right man will like you flaws and all… and if you can find a single man in today’s society who is not a egocentric dolt or narcissist stuck in cave man days, god bless you! i respect guys and girls the same, wouldn’t dare hit a girl, i help everyone all the time, i’m there for my friends, but i do know how to stand up for myself. she sent the signal that all it took for him to get the sex was saying “be my girlfriend” or “i love you”. in the past i’ve been alpha and beta at different times with different groups of people, although i really don’t like characterizing my behavior in those terms. and he’s probably figuring out you’re not bringing anything to the table, he’s doing all the work, you act like a coy introverted nice girl and not giving anything back.

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     you feel safe and special, even my husband feels that way. could have chosen to teach her to try and find someone decent but you didn’t.“you know i don’t think they’re attracted to “assholes” they’re just attracted to guys with confidence who know what they’re doing. he is my best friend and i ended up and still am his rebound girl. the by, ignore all the ranting and raving by women about pick-up artist techniques. your loss (of bad boy attentions) is their gain & it’s a ‘win ‘win’ for everyone. we did acted like we were couple we were caressing each other leaning on him kissing my forehead. you can probably fight through the awkward feelings that will arise out of a contrived conversation, but why exhaust yourself like that? your choice is to stay with this guy and accept this is how he is, who he is, and enjoy a lacking in quality sex life, or break things off and raise your own bar. it really stinks when someone you’ve been intimate with starts ignoring you. if he shapes up and you still blow him off (like we’re accustomed to, and expect), then you will just strengthen his bitterness and negative feelings toward women. confidently assert to a girl that you’re the coolest person, um, ever? he might feel totally awkward around you because he doesn’t know how to act now that you two have done the deed., nice guys…there are nice girls out there for you. assert the unspoken fact that you don’t care about her more than the next chick? you’re there to pump his ego and get him off, then he’s done. a whole new social code emerges once you’ve hooked up. i’m not even saying get into a relationship or be happy with a man… i’m simply saying dump the negativity so you can create an opening for goodness to come into your life.. and to be honest with you, at some point they probably will because they still want something from us. ignore the people who still not sure of themselves – test the waters and enjoy relationships without throwing your heart into every pretty face. i don’t know who hurt you or what painful memories you’re hanging onto and viewing the world through… but i’m not responsible for any of that.  you’re  hyper focused, and i’m afraid it’ll get you hurt.) you should never make getting a woman your primary focus in life period. you are just assuming that because i fix problems for people they have daddy issues? on yourself —- and then you’ll find a guy deserving of the person you want to become., learn about game to get all the social dominance you’ll need to attract women. like you prey on girls with daddy issues, who let themselves be taken advantage of by guys who don’t treat them right /:p. i bet the next few generations, being bred on gangsta booty pop music and basically straight up hardcore porn on cable television, are definitely pushing that number lower. seventh grade was a long time ago, and they won’t ever change, so don’t waste your time trying. 🙂in the “it’s a fight …” thread i think you touched upon part of the issue.) you’re screwed because he is so bitter toward women that he is done being a nice guy and has truly turned into a jerk, or 2. i never blamed my lack of success on being nice (i’ve always understood that that particular commonly- stated correlation is absurd), but until a couple years ago i really couldn’t figure out what to blame it on. me stress that i’m not a pick-up artist, nor have any desire to be one. i do want to point out that one of the main reasons many of us “nice guys” are wimpy is because many of us didn’t grow up with a male role model. i mean just because a woman talks about her relationship with her boyfriend, it doesn’t mean she’s needy and desperate, it just means she wants him to be a keeper and step up and be a mature man. we went on a short trip together a few weeks ago and i totally screwed it up (nice guy all the way) because she turned me down for a date shortly afterwards., you were right on right up till you suggest to text “whats up? would just be nice for a guy to be upfront from the beginning.! i’m running circles around your advice, but you aren’t fully making it capable for us women to solve our issues. you don’t want to see him wave to you from a distance you better step up and start actually participating, putting in something, giving back…which isn’t chasing him, it’s being in the relationship..How can you tell if he is the good-guy-turned-into-a-jerk kind of guy? example would indicate he doesn’t care all that much (if at all)… but it has nothing to do with what i was saying in the context of the article or even the snippet you pasted in. when you internalize this, you will care less, and that in and of itself will drive up your value and make you challenging, because you genuinely don’t give a f*ck! obviously, you can reject his advances, but if you’re a half-decent person, you’ll probably feel bad turning someone down who has feelings for you, even if, to you, the hookup didn’t mean anything. so that’s too bad if you don’t realize it until after.,i don’t think your nice guy is playing you, i think he likes you as a friend.@susanenq called me up and started asking questions about why we didn’t go out  after our hook up. there’s no worrying about whether or not your feelings are returned, no worrying about whether or not you can communicate your thoughts.

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this is a “you need to take personal responsibility for your emotions” issue. they don’t ask questions, act somehow interested, would perhaps hang with you, but won’t commit to anything.’m sure some or many women will take umbrage to the advice in this post, but f*ck ’em, they don’t pick up women…well, most haven’t anyway! instead of assuming, that i just help fix problems for everyone i care about, and it is entirely frustrating to watch someone destroy their lives, especially when you are romantically interested and they are destroying their lives with a douche. of all the sex with all the women out there they could be having – do you really think it’s just about sex for a man to make his choice? i mean, if he was treating like you are special and he says he really likes you, i think he’s faking it when he doesn’t want a special girl in his life but plenty of them in his bed. you need to separate and become independent – in other words, detach from the outcome. you would be an awesome addition on the comment threads, so i encourage you to chime in on new posts. and if you don’t know the code, you look stupid. no sense if vying for someone who doesn’t want you or is half assed (got one foot out the door). signs that your hookup is falling for you »searchsubscribe now! items on text messages: you want some cocky because you have no context in a text message – no frame, no tone of voice, no environment, no facial gestures, etc..may be keeping me as a back up if he wants more sex later…the sad part is i actually kinda liked this guy. sometimes you need to find out a way to spend your time that actually makes you happy (a team at a local rec center or whatever is your cup of tea) instead of literally wasting looking for problems in your relationship. i would say enjoy his friendship, but do not get emotionally invested, if there is little chance of your ever living near one another. well, i said we hang out sometimes and when we do, it’s like we never broke up. you should do if you wake up still feeling exhausted after a nap. good guys will stay as far from you as possible and the bad guys won’t care about your negative attitude because they wouldn’t care regardless of what your feelings are… in fact, they might even find it funny and toy with you… which would further perpetuate your anger/bitterness/hate, etc. subtle ways to tease a girl are to call her a dork or dweeb when you two are joking around, refer to her as a friend, when she says something dumb say “that’s strike one”, the next time say “that’s strike two”. come all your articles, you aren’t pointing out or discussing what to say and how to verbally deal with it? love is not about how you feel it is what you do.– so being that you’re choosing to be there… and you’re only responsible for what you can control… and you can’t control him… *and* you want to have the best, most loving, most committed, most awesome relationship possible… why would i write about anything other than how to make effective choices that will get you the result you want? they want to feel like they have to earn you…to earn your attention. don’t make it easy, or we won’t respect you. suppose my issue is: if i maintain that mindset that women will find me attractive later, which may be true, i’m not having self-respect because i’m second-hand goods that is only good because what she wanted isn’t what she wants now. he could be being polite because he’s not interested, or those huge clues that you think you’re giving? sadly, in our emasculated culture, we need things like pua (pick-up artist) techniques to emulate what our forefathers were taught by their fathers…before women started working, no longer needed ’em and kicked the men out of the house; spawning generations of gutless men who don’t know how to attract and pick up women. it’s not like he can call you every day and move this forward. i find it strange that a guy should withdraw after sex as it usually makes the couple feel closer. you’re guilty because you keep sending the message to men that they need to be cruel and uncaring in order to get anywhere with you. or, should you compromise your self-respect to be happy, which then means you are betraying yourself? basically, it is *selfish people* who hurt others, not hookups, and they usually do it intentionally, and even when they want a relationship. the thing is he told me he doesnt love me anymore, and i think its true because why should you say something cruel to someone who would give up everything for you. the thing is even we cannot control the anxiety of being left alone and act cool in front of them when u all want is to hug him and feel his warmth around you. you’re saying men naturally want sex and women should just conform to that and hope that in turn they will end up being appreciated. if him texting and calling on a regular basis is important to you then you should stop dealing with a guy who feels its not. up… you’re drinking poison (metaphorically) and you don’t even realize you’re addicted to it… you’re trying to rile up other angry women to agree with you or other people who disagree with you to fight with you… why? usually your mom is out of touch too — she’s coming from a much older generation where things were done very differently. i think if it’s clear he does want a relationship he will just treat you better generally. tell another man in seriousness that you could mop the basketball court with him? he ended up stringing her a long for 3 years without ever actually getting back in an exclusive relationship. explain to him that you’re upset that he’s been blowing you off and you’re feeling super confused. until he gets lonely, that person dumps him, or his schedule clears up a bit.’m currently facing a relationship issue and would like to seek your advice if i may. it talks about the importance of meeting your own needs, and other guy advice. you cannot change him and nothing you say or do is going to change him. my opinion, this is what’s happening: the guy thinks about you and how nice/pretty you are and calls, texts, etc…for a while. however, if you’ve really taken one, you should know that, by definition, the fact that the relationship is a state of *interactions* means that there are two people involved, either of whom (or both) could be at fault if things go sour.

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i guess i didn’t want to show the guy how messed up i am by what he’s doing and how hard i’m trying to protect my pride. every girl i ever liked turned me down with the line “your a nice a guy but i see you as a friend” and i’m sick and tired of being the one off the ledge.) a woman should never be your primary focus when approaching a woman. you want to learn how to delicately dance on that line. are lots of articles here on how to choose guys, what not to put up with, etc. it doesn’t matter you act needy or not, he just simply doesn’t care anymore. a man can’t treat you like a human being, he’s not worth it.. he won’t marry you because he’s probably married to someone else. you either come across a bf or if not a fwb that you two could enjoy each other companies and practice safe sex. instead of waiting for the guy to do the “this isn’t a relationship” talk, i asked him, “do you think that i want to be in a relationship with you? about it – do you honestly think that men choose a woman for their one exclusive relationship just for sex? i need a plan of action here, what are your suggestions? if you want to take it slow and wait to have sex, then you will certainly need to give positive feedback and display your interest. if the girl you are desperately in love with, doesn’t want you, time for you to go away. but, you mentioned that “grandma & great grandma might have been able to do it w/o any degrees, graduate or otherwise, and dealing with much smaller effective population sizes, (due to natural transportation limitations). also, trust your gut instinct, if you think he is trying to avoid you , then why would you want to be in a relationship with someone like that? a guy of average looks who ignores a girl will get further than a guy who’s better looking but puts her on a pedestal. it’s just going to be too difficult for you to read a woman who is very guarded in her feelings and actions.. he totally gave you the impression that he liked you and then was a complete jerk. “his bed” definitely won’t be the last place you see your random hookup. the last girl i dated dumped me to be with a guy who treated her very badly, resulting in a messy breakup. women are gonna find out soon that you are such bullsh*t. i met this guy back in august after 6 months of me breaking up with my boy friend of 12 years at that point i wasn’t looking for no one but the guy seemed different so i went on to talk to him from time to time and every time i talk to him he seemed to be very interested in me that made me interested in him so after a while i wanted sex so we was about to twice the first time i was ready he wasn’t what he did was drop a bomb on me to say he has a girl friend and was 22 he didn’t want to do it because she read our text ok so i was disinterested at this point but still wanted it ok so time went on he begain too reach out again me just still liking him i play hard to get again then after that i was done i just didn’t want to waste no more time with him so a little time past he reached out again so i went to see him and we had sex for 5 min i was upset but then i was like too my self that’s just what i get… for being stupid so i talked o him twice after that the first time was to say that i want a retry the second time was to make sure he was all on board so the day came i call and text his phone no answer so i left a long text to him about how he was some shit and he is a little boy later i felt stupid and instead of apologizing i told him merry xmas of course he didn’t respond but for some reason in way i still want it what should i do. is what it’s really like to be an alcoholic in your 20s. susan said before, advice from your girlfriends at this point is the worst idea. and winning feels pretty good, no matter what it is you win. he won’t be offended by you doing this, & if he’s not interested it will be a chance for him to clear the air & say where he’s at., this means you end up doing nothing, which means you have no chance of success, but if you fear failure enough, you’ll give up success to avoid it. answer to your question about how would he know if she’s needy/obsessing is first make sure you know what needy/obsessing means to a guy. have some self respect and confront him what’s up, otherwise, just move on., and all other recovering nice guys:there is another very valuable book to read to aid in your recovery from whimpiness, it’s called “no more mr.: i’m sympathetic to anyone who’s upset… to a point. the fact is – if you’re needy and obsessing over him and your relationship with him, he’ll still feel it… even if you’re not calling or texting during that time. don’t say why you can’t move from encounter to relationship. i’m not sure if its the right site to post this but the love of my life broke up with me 3 months ago. work, at school, with other men, certain attitudes will get you no where. just to be told “i don’t have the same feelings for you as you do for me. you say a woman needs to be a prize, but how does she make herself a prize when she can’t even make contact?!Eric’s right though that witholding sex is pointless in terms of building a man’s love, though it is of course a good idea if you don’t feel emotionally safe with a man yet, or indeed sexually attracted! maybe at some point you tell her you agree that she deserves a nice guy and explain the situation to her. specific non-trivial examples would definitely be in order i think, otherwise it is not possible to visualize what you just suggested here. i would appreciate your help, does he only wanted sex from me and was cute because of that and now when he said he dont want to sleep with me anymore and that he needs space, he just dont want me anymore? you didn’t mention whether this behavior carries over into other areas but i suspect it does.. i agree honesty is the best policy… you should at least have the balls to tell someone how you feel afterwards. thus, driving up their value, and making the women eager to “catch the prized fish”. overall, but if you’ve read through some of these questions, you’ll see that women are going about things all wrong, assigning some sort of intrinsic value to their vaginas to use as a negotiation tool to snare a guy on a longer term basis, or being all around psycho neurotic – vandalizing some guy’s property because she can’t make him love her, or invading his privacy because she’s an insecure, paranoid idiot, or playing head games. don’t mean to sound harsh… my bluntness is to make the point clearly here so that you can have a great love life. a couple of good books are “the game” by neil strauss, and “the mystery method” by mystery; also, check out david deangelo’s “cocky and funny” program.

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they’ll try to lure you in with early sex. you can’t blame all men us women don’t listen. i just say, you are the most down to earth, helpful, inspiring “ask a guy” writer i’ve ever come across. ask your older brother really (or dad — he’ll usually know what’s up, especially if he was a player back in the day). this guy doesn’t have the balls to approach then the little girl having sex is going to have to step up. it makes me upset and needy and probably does make him run off, which is somewhat understandable., from what i see every day, i think so…if being bad is the only thing that works then ladies shouldn’t expect being loves for more than a week, cos either your nice or a jerk, sex is needed (women married to a 30 yr old guy with no experience will cheat and he will continue to be the loser). you wouldn’t have had success with women with awkward social skills if you were not very attractive. if you are a nice guy and have to wait to find girl, who has wasted time on bad guys, you are essentially displaying the same low self-esteem issues, because you deserve better than what you are getting. first, keep in mind that if your mindset is needy towards the guy or relationship, the amount of time that’s passed won’t really matter. i broke up with my boyfriend going on our 5 year being together ,, we where apart for 11 months. i stumbled upon this post, and it’s been entertaining reading the comments from top to bottom, and i wanna give my opinion on the situation.. fake) lack of interest by eschewing punctuation, making it look like you didn’t have time to put all the characters in. he might be distancing himself from you because he doesn’t want to give you the wrong idea. she will never want you if you seem desperate for her. there are other, more direct ways to show her you can attract other women. far as creating attraction and interest on a date, again, it’s all about elevating your value, and diminishing hers. can you read what all of these men and women are saying? The dates have all been amazing, we have so many core values, beliefs, and lifestyle aspecWhy casual hookups take more emotional energy than relationships.. then we cuddled for a bit then he got up n started telling me he doesn’t do occasion sex doesn’t do friends with benefits he basically started to pulling rules.) you can call him on his shit, tell him you do not respond to his untoward behavior and demand to be treated better. i suggest that you don’t start with google results which include pua, pickup, seduction and the like in the title..now even in bed he was so sweeeet he even would kiss my head and forehead and hug me very tight he told me he had always liked me but he wouldnt tell me because he thought i was happy with my ex and told me he wants me and i was the one for him and keep laughing with me and being super cute all the time…he would send me pictures on the phone of things he saw that would remind him of me and buy me some desserts…so everything seemed like he really liked me! a guy isn’t all that into you, but knows you’ll give it up on date #3, he’ll stick around long enough to get some booty then leave. it is not good too have sex immediately but to wait too much as well get it even worse (he said he liked you because he wanted to win prize but why you made the sex as the prize). i don’t see how as long as you’re upbeat & “cool” & call once after a long time just to say, “hey, how’s it going,” is going to make him feel like you’re being needy. on the mark when you said girls shouldn’t look at sex as their only asset. in turn , i’m reading from you, that a man will be interested in that quality. i heard this way before college and thought it was terrible, shame that there’s a lot of truth in it (backed up by tons of pua / game researchers). so if a man won’t change for you why should you change for him. don’t worry if what are you saying/doing is rooted in confidence – it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. they all want you to be happy & want to make things work out for you / avoid making you feel bad. he calls on sunday, i didn’t pick up because i was enjoying my weekend, and do not make time for rude men who insist on getting laid and then don’t call back., but you say it was his frequency & perhaps tone of his calls/texts that turned you off. have you ever asked yourself what you’re doing to attract unhealthy people into your life? all she has to do is talk “it seems like we have a good time together but i just want us to slow down on the sex right now because i like it when we’re like this without the sex at the moment, how do you feel about that?’m telling you… and i’m seriously doing my best to be compassionate here… do yourself a favor and cut the cycle… you might not realize how much feeding into negativity drives people away… it seeps into your pores and becomes like an aura around you that repels people…. now, why is knowing what you want equated with neediness? i hope to see you around on some of the other comment threads. works when you’re younger, but when you’re in your 30’s or 40’s or even older, play time is over. another poster made a great point that our forefathers didn’t need pick-up artist lines to pick women up, and he’s right. so, frustrated, i lean back, catch the eyes of a very vulnerable-looking girl, and i say, “what do you want? i wouldn’t waste any time with a guy who tries to keep you guessing. it’s hard to treat a beautiful woman like she’s just okay when you’re into her inside. it’s fair to tell a man that you won’t have sex until you know him and trust him. if, at that same party, you see a guy whom you hooked up with who ended up not being into you, you have to ignore him and act like you’re fine — all to avoid seeming too crazy, too emotional, or any of the other ridiculous stereotypes that plague women. it is always the advice given out to women who date douches (“have some respect for yourself., you’re a very good guy (and i don’t mean “nice” guy because you’re blunt and honest).

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i am interested in a woman i met on a dating website (ok cupid) and we talk daily through text, but i am wondering how to not show too much interest or seem cocky? you’re fortunate in that you figured this out for yourself. felt physically attracted to one another,but had different goals and sometimes personality wise we weren’t there, but we loved to screwed our brains out and felt good because sometimes you get busy with your schedules, but when there was a gap we got together to get off with each other and relax our stressed out lives and challenges..she sounds lovely and kind and thoughtful and here you are making her feel worse than she already feels….. then he said “part of me feels bad because i do really respect you and think you’re a good person” ok so it’s clear then that you’re not looking for anything more than a hook up? and i know that it is true that women really *do* crave a person that can offer a lot of kindness and affection and support. he never says hook up, or alpha, or any of that pickup bs, so i knew something was up. a guy seems to just want sex with you, do it if you’re ok to be left high and dry afterwards. but i don’t think it would feel this way with a man who you instinctively felt would respect you and like to talk to you afterwards, you know? by the writer’s comment, it seems there is an awkwardness on both parties and it is equally up to both parties to try and figure out where they are now at after having sex. we were having a great time up til we opened up with another. you will only attract the shady ones, as healthy men can sense it and will run away. find yourself a man who deserves your attention, and these types of jerks are not it. to elite daily's official newsletter, the edge, for more stories you don't want to miss.) i’ll become the biggest, baddest a**hole out there and will live it up with nothing but meaningless flings and an endless string of women, baby! eric is making fun of the idea of mandatory sex on date #3 as one of the many stupid ideas from the book, the rules., well you can get to know him if he is lying and deceitful ? hear from a fair number of  young men who are just as frustrated as many of you are in the search to find meaningful relationships., i’d rather have a relationship over a series of awkward, fumbly, how-do-we-proceed-now casual hookups. put a piece of gum in your mouth and hand her a piece too. and to the guy that’s behind it – thank you for not giving these women dopey, idiotic advice that will only compound their issues with men.  however, similar to translating a language in which you are not fluent, this is taxing, so i do not do this constantly. it’s very casual… did you at least use a condom or get the plan b pill? he pretty expressed how upset it made him and ignored my calls and some text. not to pick on you but, really, did you miss the boat on this? you don’t think that when i’m instructing men i don’t tell them the very same thing — that they need to take control over what they are responsible for and do the best they can to get the effective results they want? just adopt the attitude that you are the coolest dude a girl could ever get with. anybody please tell me your thoughts on this because it really is frustrating me! and the book i am currently reading is titled “all the good ones aren’t taken: change the way you date and find lasting love”. do you know if you and your partner are officially over and if he has already moved on… we got into a big disagreement and went a couple of days without speaking nor seeing each other but then i broke the silence and called him but now its back to silence with each other in almost a month,,, are we really done. since i keep getting passed up, i can’t get the experience to fill in that gap. if you weren’t dating anyone else while you were friends with benefits with him, then he fell into the illusion that you were his girlfriend. it’s possible that he thinks you want a more serious relationship right now, and he doesn’t feel that way. many good men refuse to settle down with a woman who “had her fun” with a bunch of more dominant guys when they were young. hurts so much for same one you love the most but never mind i’m also in bad stuff. that should serve you well as long as you lose it to fend off jerks, rather than trying to reel them in. know that if you stick around knowing he doesn’t actually love you and doesn’t actually respect you, then you deserve what you get from here 🙂. if you only want sex, get a prostitute or even better, jerk off. games might seem fun in the moment, but they’ll only leave you feeling sad later. no… i don’t want to hear some justification why this somehow doesn’t apply to you because you’re a woman and women are the victims and men are evil, blah blah blah… just answer the question… would you want to be anywhere near a guy like that? i appreciate you telling us your story because, like you, i think i am an attractive dude even though i am 5’7″, i have a good personality etc etc and through your story and lessons i can move forward without making the mistakes myself! it’s a state of behavior so you have a relationship established by your second interaction.. when you respond, he loses interest because now you’re available (not a good sign for boyfriend material). due to the rapid changes in environment our biological evolution could not keep up with it and this leaves us with the way we are today, which is thousands of years in evolution behind our environment. it’s your health right and you care about your health right? its a looks thing, either you have it, or you don’t, and body type determines weight so much that there is no magic number.’m a nice guy who has no luck at all with women, which is fine i suppose. my guess is that you’ll need a woman who is fairly direct and assertive.

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sometimes it feels like once we give it up to them, we lose any and all control and have to wait and see if they text or call us. signs you need to tell your boyfriend to slow down. his not returning messages sometimes is more likely his not wanting to lead you on. women, remember that your need for attachment after having sex is as legitimate as guys’ need for sex without planning to commit to a girl. the problem is that some men will be interested in that quality (happiness/confidence) only because they want to make a conquest of you. i am not there yet but i am growing and i believe that when we mature and learn more about ourselves and what is good for us and what is not – these issues with relationships will not effect you at all. women on the other hand will compromise on this one, they end up feeling used and hurt; they will lose some of their confidence in themselves and in men. may be wrong, but if it’s eating you up so much to know, just ask him. even if you don’t reach out to him, he’ll think that too. his daughter wasn’t feeling good that day and i said i understand that he has a lot going on and that i will be here if you ever needed anything. as a woman, you can love sex and have it as soon as you want and as much as you want and that is attractive in some sense because its freeing.  i am sharing this with you, as i would like your opinions. once you understand how women think, what triggers sexual attraction, how to sustain it, in theory, then you can begin to interact with this knowledge in place. you should have written, “…i like (not luke) – “a lot” — “he doesn’t” (not don’t) —-“what happened” — “too quick” —- “what should i do? the ones who like your attention and want more of it will not-so-subtly let you know. don’t loose your bad boy image, but treat a girl right at the same time. the hookup a one-time thing, or will you hook up again next weekend? whole premise of social dynamics as it pertains to dating is showing to women that you are of high value, thus driving up your value to her, making her feel the need to win you…thus, making you a “challenge”. me sum up your article for you and for the poor desperate humiliated women that read this web-site : if you would have been more arttractive he would have not had to lie to get sex. do things they’re internally conflicted about all the time… a person who’s trying to lose weight ends up eating a pint of ice cream and then feels horrible about what they did… or someone who’s in a bad mood yells at their loved ones and then regrets it…. you really like a guy and he asks for sex, wait until you can see that he is as hooked as you are. he told me he wanted to go to the beach at night just to walk together etc well he then invited me to his house to watch movies and i said yes 🙁 so one thing lead to he other and we ended up having sex . you can probably have a pleasant surface-level chit-chat, but who wants to panic about the unpleasant silences that will inevitably pepper it? do we do this because it’s risky and not suppose to. for the philippines where a young lady says that she wants to dance. i had read many of your threads prior to my first post., you dont have to be a jerk all the time. trust me while you are waiting on him he’s talking to another woman who thinks like me. rest of what you describe here sounds wholly plausible, but of course applies mostly to our select population of perhaps college educated, middle class kids. most undercover nice guys will say okay and be themselves for a trial run to see how you respond. is he blabbing about your sex life all over campus? she says now she just wants to be friends and you know how that really feels when they say that. sex can be complicated and messy, and if a guy is going to bolt after doing it, there’s something wrong with his maturity level – it’s not about you. after all, the common denominator in all your relationships is you. about it – do you honestly think that men choose a woman for their one exclusive relationship  just for sex?, and you better not text him to ask about any of this, either, because you can’t communicate outside of a weekend night.“communication, just normal talking, is considered clingy and too intimate, so nothing important is ever discussed,” a friend of mine recently lamented about the aftermath of casual hookups.’s the bottom line: this is your quality of life. the part that you have control over: your emotions, your perspectives, your attitudes, your reactions/responses, your mood, etc. if that’s the case here, you’ll only find out by trying to talk to him. you and only you are accountable for the quality of your relationships – the quality of your interactions with other people. suggesting that women should just give up if they have a positive attitude and their man doesn’t change just perpetuates and kind of pardons that behavior in a guy (this isn’t to say i advocate staying in a relationship where your partner does nothing for you despite your best efforts).– so if you’re *choosing* to be in a relationship, then you have a share of the responsibility for how it turns out. suggest you be nicer to people who seek advice in the future eric charles…this young lady in my humble opinion has done nothing wrong whatsoever. pretend your relation to this guy is anything other than what it is? of where you are on the autism scale, you’re obviously smart, thoughtful and articulate. you were smart to be selective and to present yourself as a man with options. you can’t expect anything in return for having sex with a guy.

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it was casual, even though there’s probably nothing actually “casual” about letting a near-stranger get all up in your naked, vulnerable body in the middle of the night — but i’m digressing. if you are good looking, this is even more likely to occur, because women will perceive that you have options and will be unlikely to settle down with one woman. if the answer is no then it would be more appropriate for a question like “do you remember when we got together the other night? women should be happy about men want to have sex with them, because it tell them they are attractive to men, but it’s up to women’s decision to make the choices. therefore my womans brain idea of being free with sex because its awesome and im evolved, etc, doesnt match up with his male brains wiring which says. there are good guys out there – you just need to look around and identify one who can stand up for himself without being a douchebag. seems that the aim of many girls (i am certain, because i have asked) is that they want to have sex “as much as they can” with guys they fancy while they are young, and the nice guys are rejected & kept in the friends zone for a rainy day (perhaps the righ time). in: help me heather, love advicetags: advice, being ignored, help me heather, hooking up, sex, why is he ignoring me. like i said, there is a line, and you have to learn how to dance that invisible fine line.“been hit on by a lot of guys, but those guys are in the friend zone to me”, so you’re doing the same to them as you think he’s doing to you…i’m not trying to make any big point here, just pointing out that it cuts both ways. any way i end up talking to women and they think i am not straight. let them fall in love with you and you choose to make them the one for you. if you’ve attempted to guide him toward your pleasure and he still ignores it, the problem is with him: he’s sexually immature and selfish, inexperienced and has no desire to improve himself, or he sees you as nothing more than a service station. you’re disqualifying yourself from her, and it makes her want to qualify for you! and as a nice guy, you just can’t get any experience without being an asshole.. then i told him i wanna hook up again he writes me n says i like u a lot as a friend but i don’t want to continue our relationship romantically u didn’t do anything wrong in just in a place where j want a gf or friends with benefits or anything like that. you are casually dating and not going p in v i don’t think other women are any of her business, nor are her other men yours. roissy has some excellent advice posts on text game if you google it. (not all girls want a commitment) but for those that do, i feel that it is way too hard to have sex with a guy you care for, yet hang out in limbo playing it cool. they end up picking any other guy besides me, no matter how much or how little i talk to them. read the article and some of the posts there and i have a few things that came up to my mind. once you get a read on someone, does it get easier for you to manage the back and forth? you ever felt a gut instinct or picked up on someone’s energy?’s us women get caught up in the fairy tales. get to know yourself and be happy in life with yourself and that person will show-up at the right time. don’t think you should blame her for being childish because every woman has different experience with a guy and every guy will act differently towards a woman. do you think that by no calls, texts, e-mails etc. point here is that if you want to win with this guy (or men in general), you have to view yourself as a prize to be won as a whole. so when you go around acting like sex with you isnt a big deal and you can do it just as much and just like any man, then you become like a man to him. you create standards of what you want in a person and really know how to love that person. the person that you eventually end up with will most likely ignore you until they are done with the douchebags. do you think men in an affair with a woman automatically loses respect for the woman and withdraws? was the hookup a one-time thing, or will you hook up again next weekend? don’t get hurt easily have relationships with all that women around you. however, the fact that you are far away from each other is important – even if he wanted a real relationship, how would that happen? many women who really want the relationship will hook up as a means of getting it. it’s all about supply and demand – if you are in great supply, your demand will be low; whereas if you are scarce, your demand will be exponentially higher. before the sex fail, he was all “i love you so much. he dumped her for a girl a year younger, whom he married.. (another great book about sexuality is called ‘sex at dawn’) but what i think ends up killing it is, biologically a man’s brain is wired to compete to win the prize, then sex becomes part of the spoils of that won prize. i want closure, so should i just text him and tell him “you don’t need to be polite and text me, i’m a big girl, sometimes things work out, sometime it doesn’t but we had fun while it lasted. its like pretending to buy a car and acting interested when all you want is to drive it once and you have no intentions on buying it at al and you lie to the saleman. / adela — you made 3 posts last night (saturday night) and 4 more this morning…. what is it inside you that’s compelling you to feed off of negativity? if she wanted a relationship, why would she ljbf you? slept with a guy i work with i luke him alot but now he acts like he dont know me at work and always walks out with another woman …we had sex a few times…what happen i would like to date him but i don’t know what to say or do…i messed up by sleeping with him to quick…what should i do. another good one is “they can dress you up, but they can’t take you out! i was under the impression that if you “hooked-up”, you were (in effect) precluding a relationship.

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however, i advise against misspellings and abbreviations (luv u, lol, etc) because it makes you look uneducated and/or girly. if a key male figure in your life was a jerk, you’ll seek out jerks for relationships as an adult. unfortunately, losing your virginity or having sex with someone doesn’t always have a fairytale ending like it does in the movies.  you know when he’s there, i mean you want to be his friend. sometimes i feel like maybe i messed up somewhere by sending her lots of emails and just trying to be too caring. i said happy valentines day to him, and he texted back ,same to you ! that way one tries to avoid remorse after the inevitable breakup by simple justification “it was never supposed to succeed in the first place”, denying that both parties are responsible for making the relationship work. and thank you for explaining that these guys do, indeed, go for the weaker. know this is geared towards women, but to all the guys out there that want to give up, don’t, because theres always someone out there for all of us. mean, even though you’ve talked and laughed and sweated in sheets together, you don’t really know this person, so how would you know what he or she is actually like? you want to spout off angry messages about how you hate men, how men are scum, how you’re giving up on relationships, how women are victims, etc..,so i had a bf and we broke up i was sad and turned to him and he said he appreciated a lot that i trust him and he will help me in any way he can to help me feel better…so he would invite me to lunch to give me advice etc and he would pay he would come pick me up and take me back he was super sweet! but it’s tough to realize you like them after that, when you didn’t think you “cared”., what would the world be like if boys and girls waited until they were young men and young women, and prepared to support themselves and a home, looked for and met someone compatible with whom there was also some romantic love and physical chemistry, got to know them during a period of dating and engagement, and then married, and then started their sexual relationship, and it was a major force which held them together as one? i just want to order my sandwich, pay for it and move on with my day without faking my way through a conversation that really just involves me wondering if you like me or if i even like you or if we’re going to f*ck again this weekend or if you remember that oddly-shaped birth mark on my butt… and if you do, can you please forget about it? maybe you cuddled with him too long after the fwb sex. you’re not alone, women love hard ass jerks, as this post demonstrates. have to say my guy has been upfront with me no strings attached . the rest of the girls i m gonna say:mature up. your articles have given me so e things to think about and bring into my life to create a more meaningful life for myself instead a guy. it’s one sided and he’ll get fed up and go find someone who shows she wants to be with him, hang out with him, hook up with him, likes his company, and is an active participant.’m 23 now, haven’t had a real girlfriend for a while, and am generally dissatisfied with how shallow and pathetic girls my age are…i thought we (guys) were supposed to be the shallow ones, and girls had more discerning characteristics and bigger hearts and shit but most days i grow more confident that girls are just as shallow as guys. your sentence *should* read: “the relationship is the state of your interactions between one another…and if that sucks, the problem lies with you or the other person or both of you.! have an attitude that all people give attention to you. up is all i can say, no one is obligated to take you as you are, if who you are isn’t worth taking, and the only kind of men you’ll get are losers who’re just as desperate as you. i ask this here in your blog because i find you as an honest, respectful, and realistic man blogger. the main thing to remember is that this is not your fault. you have the mentality that you have one bargaining chip (sex) and that you should hold out because it will magically generate interest, you’re viewing sex as your one and only asset. really, i think that comes down to realizing you didn’t actually respect your wishes, because you are telling yourself that somehow after sex it’s inevitably over. you have a choice — there might be other factors that make it a difficult choice, but it’s still a choice. a lot of other dating advice writers like to talk about waiting x number of days or holding out to make him text/call you first., perhaps by not letting your hormones to overrule your reason? btw susan i love your dedication and this website blog, it is absolutely amazing. easy rule of thumb all women should follow is that before a guy is a male, he’s first a human, same as you. you might succeedcheers mate,I am going through a experience. how the woman acts, how pretty she is, what she has to offer has no bearing at all on the situation because the man already has his mind made up to play her for a fool and use hr for sex then dump her, pretty heartless. recently have been hanging out with a guy who has been trying to hook up with me. “you just spend every second overanalyzing because no one will ever be able to validate your thoughts. know that this will mean less attention from guys, but that’s ok because it protects you from players and sends a message that you’re in it for the relationship, not the short-term validation. i’m pretty cocky and sarcastic but not a jerk i feel that if anyone is a jerk (no matter what the gender is) i really really hate people like this and think you should just be yourself instead of pretending to be someone you aren’t. totally agree with you, why don’t these men just go to bars? appears to be quite selfish and your question boils down to is it you or is it him? so, by getting with women later in life who have been with douchy guys, no matter how great of a girl they are, you are essentially showing the same low self-esteem issues.@ stacygirl:fwb is gonna screw most girls up, at least you’ve had the sense to realize that it’s not something that works for you. if a man is interested in you but not in sex, you gonna be worry about it. you’re trying too hard to keep from being seen as clingy to the point he’s the only one in the relationship. i’ve been brought up with one rule, to care for the ones i love, it may seem stupid but that’s who i am.*please answer below:8 signs you and your hs bae aren't going to last.

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