Its Just Lunch - Matchmakers - 121 S 8th St, Downtown Minneapolis! ijl is not a responsible firm when it comes to managing your personal information privacy! one redeeming quality is that the staff is always friendly. it was no longer just lunch, i had to commit an entire afternoon to this. (madison)wtmj radioz104 (madison)bbc americacnbccnndirecttvespnfox newsfox businessheadline newsinvestigation discoverymsnbcscience channeltlctru. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailarlene of brooklyn, nymarch 17, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingi found sheri to be very helpful in providing an understanding of the ijl process as well as some key points about dating in general. i joined in 2008 through the greenville, sc franchise which has subsequently been closed and is now being managed by the same florida folks mentioned in others' complaints. after 4 months and not one match i ask how much the membership for just random dates. our end goal is always to see our clients find a healthy and happy long term relationship, but we cannot do this without your cooperation. a year later we married and have had 5 wonderful years together. but please whatever you do, stay away from this disaster of a service! when transferred to a supervisor named maritza at the company, i left messages on january 6 and 8, 2009. it's just lunch has an a+ rating with the bbb and 25 years of successful matches. (not sure how an interviewer can ferret out some of these lies, they are not esp professionals. she assured me there were a lot of matches and she understood why my first membership wasn't that successful. i almost felt bad when i got off of the call, which is not how a potential customer should be feeling. in over 18 years, it's just lunch has set up more than 2 million first dates, with many of them resulting in second dates. i will check back periodically and happily answer any questions. at the time, was super busy and did not have time to meet men and they coordinated my schedule well! i called and no one would take my calls from the new york office. it's embarrassing and really frustrating given how much money i paid. you only need the claim form, a brief description of what happened, and the acra biz profile you just printed out from the previous step. i'm not sure the personal touch on the match making is really there and despite calling to give feedback after every date, i still don't feel like we are getting any closer to finding the right matches. even if you think you are comfortable dating it's always good to get feedback. there is a lack of male members - to the extreme. but again, whoever he was two years ago and who he is now. to put it in plain english for those of you on the fence of joining ijl because you are lonely, know this: do not give your money away to pretty little liars who sugarcoat everything because it is all a façade. i tried making a reservation for the restaurant through open table and could not make one for that restaurant. i have embarked on the idea of dating again with low expectations regarding my own date-ability, as well as the quality of single men in my age group. i told her that i wasn't sure i was wanting to invest in this type of service just yet, and she ignored my statement and pushed for a phone interview the next day. the matches made were far less appealing than could be found on tinder any given night. that i would be give profiles of men who matched with me. after each date you are each asked to provide feedback. they have plenty of experience and have been super supportive. i can't say i'd be excited to call them again when/if i have money to burn. of course the catch 22 is that the less information, or incomplete information, that you provide might impact their ability to successfully match you. the 2 years i have been with this company i've had the worst dates ever! it's almost as if they reduced my many interests in a potential mate to someone who was "male and breathing. she promised to set me up with 2-3 dates a month. we look forward to continuing to work with you and get you out on great dates! once ijl discusses this with your match you will be contacted again with the details of the date (when and where). users haven’t asked any questions yet about its just lunch. one match mentioned he had been set up with the same woman twice (it didn't work out either time). 3 of the guys i was set up with were quite a bit younger than what i identified in my desired age range (which spans 12 years so it's not really narrow to start), which was fine in theory but became apparent quickly that we were in different stages of life and interests. this time i called back and spoke with the manager/owner asking to be expunged from their system. however, if lunch dates don’t work for your schedule, a drink after work can be arranged. i like to have all of the facts before i make decisions, and i like to have time to think things through. if they were truly exceptional at matching people, they would stand behind their product like many of the elite match-makers found in nyc, chicago, la, etc. nice to know there is someone there to share advice and encouragement. i left them a message a few weeks ago ( and haven't heard anything back) that if they didn't get on the ball, they still owe me 5 more dates in the next 6 months, according to the "contract" that i signed, that they would be in breach of contract, and would owe me damages, etc. it's just lunch is now the largest personalized matchmaking company with more than 100 locations worldwide. my info request was acted on quickly, the staff was bubbly, personable, engaging, welcoming, everything you would want in a good salesperson. not to mention the place was very crowded and loud to begin with music blaring in my ears it was hard to get a conversation. join at your own risk and loss of your money. when i first read about ijl it looked so believable. picks a match for you, sets up the location, makes the reservation, coordinates the date and time. they match you with anyone of the opposite gender that meets your age requirement, but not the specific criteria you have for meeting a mate. i spoke with shelia, i made sure to ask if there was an even amount of men and women signing up for this service. ijl minneapolis arranges dates for nearly 900 clients each month and we are very good at what we do! i was told that ijl is short on men - so they will take about anyone. she called again the next day, all excited to talk with me." she said she had more than that amount ready for me to meet. i told them that i was not satisfied and wanted a refund, but the manager refused and refused to allow me to speak to anyone above her. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemail." they were just waiting to meet me, all i had to do was pay ,700. i saw that as a plus, even if the date was bad i got to try a new restaurant. i felt it was better to go ahead than to cancel at the last minute; i didn't want to be rude. same old story: few dates with highly incompatible gentlemen, lack of response from ijl personnel, refusal to provide a prorated refund despite the "contract". there will be a big outcry about this company before long and i want to warn everyone not to get involved with them because if you do, you stand to lose a lot of money only to get back trouble and grief. we did not have the same interests or anything in common. i asked why i never received notice or a phone call to that effect, and they said they don't do that. ijl would like you to rush through all calls, not listen during in feedback, because in essence you "work in matchmaking" but are not a matchmaker. he said he was on bed and not informed of the date with me from ijl that particular day. did a bit of digging around on the net and found many women - just like myself (in singapore, thailand, and usa) - who had been ripped off by ijl. they promise you sounds fabulous and promising, but at the end effect it turns out to be a pure scam and fraud. i'm trying to get my money back but i don't see that happening. i find it disturbing that in australia they source dates who not members because they cannot afford to pay to become members. (2) ijl staff distort bio-data about match's height when calling with match details. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailsusan of tulsa, okmarch 8, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingkim has been a terrific dating coach and she seems to have a natural ability to find compatible matches for you. moreover she confirmed firmly all of the men on their database were serious about relationships and nice gentlemen. the company makes their reservations for the dates through open table. i have met many quality professional's and its so not about money. if you ask her, she will tell you she grew up matchmaking! it was very useful to role play, and go over some areas i was unsure about. went into this thinking that i'm a career driven single mother and need help finding great men. "on hold" only means that you still pay them for the service that you do not receive, even at the initial term. she gave me the confidence i needed to go into my first date when that is set. he can not be on our lease by himself due to his credit situation so they will not take me off the lease. it has been comfortable because the introductee and me get along well. i almost felt bad when i got off of the call, which is not how a potential customer should be feeling. 28, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingalthough i have only been a member for a month, all my encounters with ijl have exceeded my expectations. i used a credit card to pay the monthly fees, so when no one from ijl answered my attempts to reach them, i contacted my credit card company. it is very important that you express yourself well and insist on the kind of match you look for. to those cosidering joining, i would ask the ijl representive how many male and/ or female members, and if you can get it, an age grouping to that gender category. following each date you are asked to contact ijl and give feedback. a different continental - australia, but it's just lunch is even more of a scam here., i am sorry to hear you went through this *censored* because this is exactly what has happened to me - worse actually - i signed up for their premiere executive search where i am looking for a specific nationality. 12/3/2014: per ijl's comment below, apparently my contact info was still in their system. first out of the office, then "vacation", finally after 3 weeks. so far, i have had 2 dates, got another one coming up. i would definitely recommended her and ijl to a few of my single girlfriends. would not be just random dates with people you don't match with. i called ijl and they informed me that my membership had expired. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemaillauren of new york, nymarch 3, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingnice, friendly, thorough. i felt totally at ease talking with her and getting some good advice on what to expect on my first date! i spent a lot of money, well over 00 for a lservice i got little to no enjoyment out of.
Dallas Matchmaker - It's Just Lunch - YouTubethe staff was always polite,only growing more distant as i became unhappy with the service. she was rude, and very vocal about her disappointment in me as a potential client. as we discussed, if you ever find yourself living in the twin cities area give me a call, we'd love to work with you again! summarize: stay away unless you have money to burn, your favorite past time is to go on average first dates, and you like the idea of a strange woman calling you up every three months to check if you're single or not. ijl has been more of an annoyance than anything else. but to the other optimistic women out there - just be careful. and each successive date was progressively worse, as if the staff was going in the opposite direction of my feedback. i suggest, someone, like an attorney, honest in himself, take all the cases in his hand and fight for your valuable money. i will surely save many people from throwing ,500 out the window. the matches made were far less appealing than could be found on tinder any given night. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailpamela of gastonia, ncmarch 1, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingmy initial coaching was very helpful. i am sure if you were in my shoes at that time and heard those words, you would understand how bad i felt. joined the one in ny and it was/is the biggest mistake of my life. like i've said i've never done this before so it feels good to have someone looking out for me.! my dog could have matched me up better with someone i'd be interested in. i love the concept, but for the price i paid it's not working out the way i had hoped. then, i was scheduled for a second date (almost 2 months later). after the 1st date, it goes downhill if there are any dates at all. here is the latest of *many* emails: "i have been home for 6+ weeks and didn't hear a peep from ijl about a single date, my schedule or what you're doing to rectify this miserable situation. the picture given for the match was terrible and when i asked for more or a better picture i was told no. i found out later i could have gone through a san jose office which is 30 minutes from where i live. so, they are no less in the dark than we are when we meet a guy in a grocery store! depending on your location, it's just lunch will guarantee between 12 and 14 dates. their response was to never call me again with another match. i mention that because jen r mentioned it in her review, and i wanted to confirm i've had a similar experience. college football 2013: week 10 previewken said:update: bryan underwood is out with an injury.” there is nothing sara loves more than helping people achieve their goals and dreams. you, thank you and thank you to you all for posting your tearful stories and sadness that this company took all your hard earned money. if ijl was my business, i'd long be reported to the bbb for lack of service deliverables, and i'd be preparing for a serious lawsuit. i was totally blown off (once again) and there was no apology. it was my first time hiring someone to work with me, it was a pleasant experience, seemed really concerned in getting everything about me to get the appropriate match. not only do i despise this business tactic, it would not work in any other industry and it won't work here. i directly asked her how much the different plans cost, and she directly avoided the question. i was told, it takes a long time and i need to patient, (while i continue to pay each month of course). after 4 months and 4 matches, i am more dissatisfied this time. brown, whose pix is on almost all of ijl internet sites of north america and europe, works in all these office? everyone i spoke to was very professional and answered all my questions thoroughly.! dealing with this company is very frustrating, time consuming and more importantly, stressful. have been on four dates, but three of them were totally worthless. having a person involved with picking my date, a human touch, seemed to me at the time more effective than a computer.. i lived in a small town at the time so i didn't believe there'd be a lot of dates there. they told me that i was not entitled to a refund for the months that they did not meet their contractual agreement, and that they would just have me go on additional dates. started in 1991 in chicago, it's just lunch has grown to include locations across the globe. feel free to post here if you need more help.! many times at the dates i would pay the full bill just to get out of there. founded in 1991 in chicago, it's just lunch has over 100 locations worldwide with thousands of clients across the country and internationally. we are experts at helping real people who want real relationships meet each other in the most effective way possible: face to face. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailrosalind of camarillo, cafeb. this creates some panic as i don't have my date's contact info or even know what they look like, so it leaves me in the awkward position of trying to figure out who my date is or admitting to the staff that i'm meeting someone from a dating service and to help me find him. following letter was sent to its just lunch on november 18, 2008.* said:guys and women,amost everybody seems to be scammed by this company. trust is our top concern, so businesses can't pay to alter or remove their reviews. she got angry that i "wasted" her time without even bothering to sign a contract. do not sign up or pay this company any amount of money. eric - dating is a process and our matchmakers take all of your preferences into account when…. i called the "main office" in california, and no one ever returned those calls either. i was a bit worried that i would only get the minimum number of dates, but they have already scheduled me to meet 3 different guys in the first 3 weeks of being a member. :) ann marie is very organized and is good about following up with you if necessary---she makes sure nothing slips through the cracks and that you have all the information you need before you meet your matches. the woman who are making the matches have no education on what makes a "match".! to be set up with a bunch of people you could easily just grab off of the street? just a fair warning to those of you wanting to join. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemaildana of knoxville, tnmarch 11, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingfor the cost of it's just lunch, it is not worth it. you might as well go out on the street and throw money in the air and you'll meet nicer people. i love the aspect of this company but customer service and loyality is what should be number one. my initial conversation with sheila, she asked me about ethnicity and i was honest in saying i want a caucasian man. combine that with a hand-selected match by a professional matchmaker and you have improved your chances at dating success. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailkristin of zephyrhills, flmarch 17, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingso far this process has been great. several dates (10) that i went on said they hated the service as well and they weren't listening to what they wanted. i went on a date with john on august 28th and it was a waste of time and money. there was no follow up with the company until i asked for a refund of my money. i've expressed this to ijl and i'm sure it's something you already know as well. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailsusan of naples, flmarch 10, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingmy facetime interview with sheri went very well! i am confident that i'm in great hands with all this positive energy swirling around, and i genuinely believe sheri and jazz love what they do.'s just lunch was not at all what they sold themselves to be. thank you for taking the time to answer my questions and go over the process used by it's just lunch. there has been no throught put into whether i had anything in common with these men. first off they will take anyone that has the money, even if they aren't "professional".. so, in conclusion, if you are considering this service, take my advice and don't waste your money. i am sure they will come up with a date right before my membership expires and try to talk me into extending my membership. when i signed up last time i immediately got all these matches, which neither responded nor dropped me as an interest. business has been claimed by the owner or a representative. this man was a long-term client of ijl because they continued to give him a greatly discounted membership to continue with the service. than ,600 for 6 dates that aren't even available or married or just too old. wanted to let everyone know about this dating service that i recently was a part of and why not to sign up for it. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemaildavid of lewis center, ohmarch 8, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingso far, i have only been introduced to 1 woman. i do not believe they ever made a reservation at that location. i mention that because jen r mentioned it in her review, and i wanted to confirm i've had a similar experience. no clue what ongoing service costs after the membership expires. just starting to wonder if itl is a scam, because all both dates seem very interested, text me the same nite, but the next day or two, when i texted back, no more responses. we work with single business professionals to hand select their matches and arrange quality first dates for for lunch or drinks after work. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailbeverly of peeples valley, azmarch 6, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction rating15-20 minutes is a short time to sort out all that can occur in the dating world, but was helpful to know someone has your back for questions.=mybizfile-shop-cart&version=&s=926cf361e94397c4969b52f67ddb&d=&at=out&isnew=true&reload=true&an=pp012. keep all your emails and make a clear case that they knowingly were dishonest about a database they made promises about but did not have. she told me that i was a doll, and had several guys she could already see me with. a match has been made a representative will get in contact with you to discuss your match (only first names are given)..There are five easy steps:You schedule a discreet, confidential interview with an it's just lunch matchmaking representative. they have asked me for the same information several times and i had to resign the contract several times because of errors they made in drafting it. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailbonnie of scottsdale, azmarch 3, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingtalking with sheri was like having coffee with your best girlfriend. it's an honor to have them take me on as a client. i will not be utilizing this service for myself ever again. the other was an aging hippie living on a commune who wanted a wife to live on the commune with him. in total, i was out 0, a lot less than some others, but only because i got my credit card company involved, so i recommend that. you would think that she, being the one who "knows" you, would do her best to advise or help in any way possible. do i know i can trust these reviews about it's just lunch? they assured me there were "plenty of women" who are christian (my number 1 requirement) and who want kids (number 2 requirement) who would be interested in dating me.
i am in san diego about to join ijl, but after reading the reviews i've change my mind, i did called them and they told me that they have a few guys, eager to meet me,ready to date me, my age, fit, handsome, successful, ceos, etc, now i know that all was just a bunch of lies. there was no follow up calls from ijl after my date at all. they shut up after this comment and the judge allowed me to claim back a portion of my original investment. i have reached out to ijl to address these concerns with no response back. i had phoned them 5 years ago and decided at that time it wasn't for me.. first it very safe,more for the super busy professional,and as private as it gets. premise of it’s just lunch is simple: a lunch date or drink after work is the ideal first date. and since ending my use of the service, i've gotten solicitation calls every 4 months like clockwork. furthermore, if she really did call me, i would have informed her i was going to be moving to california and if she'd be able to set me up with the service out there. all they are interested in is to pay their bills and for you to pay for their luxurious lifestyles. her favorite part of being a matchmaker is “hand picking matches! that said, it was not my experience that they really even considered any of the qualities in a partner that i disclosed to them in the first place, let alone applying the feedback i provided at the conclusion of a date. it was inferred i was too picky and the men were wonderful. upon meeting, i'm clearly not in line with their religious preference. due to his cleanse, he didn't even have a drink; we ordered food, but i felt like he was judging me with every bite i took." i have complained in a nice and constructive manner, but feel it all falls on deaf ears. also note what you said in the intake and how the actual dates compared.
Witty one liners for dating sites - IBLCEpart of why i joined ijl was serious annoyance with the flakiness, difficulty actually meeting people in real life, and obvious focus of hooking up versus actually dating that i was finding in the online dating world. i signed up as i was new to dallas and was looking to try something different in order to meet ms. at different points i found john to be insincere and arrogant. first out of the office, then "vacation", finally after 3 weeks. we all deserve a refund from these scammers plus they need to be put out of business. recently closed my case with its just lunch singapore (ijl) at the singapore subordinate court. i agreed to meet all my dates in rochester, a 30 minute drive for me. not so good: sometimes i'm not sure the personal touch on the match making is really there and despite calling to give feedback after every date, i still don't feel like we are getting any closer to finding the right matches. the staff person i talked to was so kind, bubbly, and encouraging. (my brother wants a barbie doll, but he is the exact opposite of ken, believe me. lie, embarrassment,frustration,waste of money and time, damage of self-esteem and moral damage over all. a professional level, i am going to keep giving the same honest feedback that i have until i get the legal, ethical and financial recourse rightfully due to me:1) ____, we are not well suited to work together professionally, for you as my dating coordinator. i spent a lot of money, well over 00 for a lservice i got little to no enjoyment out of. she was very well spoken and seemed very good at her job!, we welcome clients every week who have inquired in the past but felt it wasn't the right time…. a number of them also seem to live kind of far out. any way, i'm on hold right now and reading all these reviews is terrifying. one date was nit-picking the wine menu with a waiter, the next was totally disinterested in being on a date, and the 3rd and last date asked me for my phone number and never called. i'm not sure if this company is still around since i stopped using them last year as they ripped my off for ,600. i can't speak to how the actual dating goes, but i was very disappointed with interactions i had with a senior level staff person. i was set up with people i would never have gone on a date with on my own. well, what i went through i will not wish my worst enemy. two of them (the most unsuitable ones) did not once ask me something about my own life or work, they only talked about themselves. matches are made by a third party based on your profile and not really personalized to your interests. perhaps i will see if the bbb or as you suggested contact 6 can help. the cost was definitely a big pill to swallow, but i was ready to give it a shot. both of us were outside the age range we had requested by several years. the staff has changed completely at least twice in the few months i was a member. i don't know one pretty & slim 25 year old woman who doesn't have 20 men chasing her at any given time and would ever need to use a singles service. i am still a competitive athlete at 56 (bicycle racing, masters division) thus a very active lifestyle, and i kept getting matched with sedentary couch potato types. one redeeming quality is that the staff is always friendly. when i could not get email or phone responses, i ended up sending an email to cancel my membership, so that it would be documented, as i was wanted to cancel my membership for 3 months prior to that. well fast forward 4, 5, 6 years and i'm still getting calls "hi, it's jen from ijl. one was a quadriplegic, another was blind,another had cerebral palsy. at the time, i justified the expense by comparing the experience to my summer vacation. i also received tips for sharing personal information and paying for the check. i just flew southwest and saw the ad in the magazine they provide and they should pull it! she assured me there were a lot of matches and she understood why my first membership wasn't that successful. i haven't been having the best luck online dating and was a bit nervous to give matchmaking a try. their consultants know nothing about match making, they dont have enough experience about matching and they are just working like sales persons trying to trap as many clients as they can and earn their commission. you have to explain your likes/dislikes over the phone to someone you have never met. he did request that they do not arrange anymore dates for him but the staff of ijl still kept calling to insist that he turn up for some random dates! i been a member at the houston location and i enjoyed going to the restaurants over in the houston area. dates with people who had desires that i specifically stated i would not want to date. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailsally of rochester, nymarch 5, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingafter all, this is a profit making organization and profit concerns come first before yours. but i've noticed they no longer advertise in the georgia straight - probably for good reason. the ft interview was also good to get some face to face time with the consultants at ijl instead of just communicating by phone or email. but i trusted them while they were telling me that the company appeared on oprah and national television. i've respectfully asked at least 4 times for a *warranted* refund, and met with--literal--silence on my clear justification (circumvented, canned, non response-responses do not and will not deter me). one of the men i met said he had 2-3 dates per week and that he was certain there were few men and stated they also didn't match people at all. she then told me "well, we tried to set you up with good matches. she provided some helpful talking points and suggestions for beginning and ending the date. i'll be sure to give another update in a couple months!?pageid=4524it might sound like a lot of work but you will see your money again and you will help put this horrible business to an end. he then told me he is just looking for fun!<< previous: hidden messages | next: well, that sucks >>it's just (a) lunch (scam)? i tried lifemates 3 years ago and my experience there was as much a farce as the people who have had bad experiences with ijl. eharmony is also worthless because they never expunge anyone from their database. so, word of mouth, must play a part in it's success. just took ijl singapore to small claims and got my money back too! i asked when this phone call had taken place and she told me the date. but they never provided feedback to me about what my date liked/disliked. my guess is that they had hardly any men in their database. tells you about all the great matches then you meet none because they are " not available". the latest is that they now going to set me up on dates at times and at locations that i have not chosen. anyway, to make a long story short: ijl doesn't listen to your needs ijl doesn't advise you on dating, or help with matching ijl doesn't match you with people that you can relate to ijl doesn't match you with good looking people ijl isn't any better than online dating, which is much cheaper ijl doesn't fulfill. once you run out of your allotted time, six months or a year, they charge you monthly. i'm kind of ok with it--it sounds scary to get feedback! i have been out of the dating world for a while and hoping ijl will help me be successful. you will have a better idea of the pool of candidates that they can offer you. they call my cell phone early in the morning - in fact, just called me today with another offer. it also strongly proves that this company is really unprofessional and unreliable. actually, i could see that last one being kind of nice if it also wasn't kind of annoying/dreadful/stalking. see my last comment has disappeared off this site so just to make sure people are aware. elove never gave their clients the opportunity to refund their money." let me try by adding just the latest email to ijl who not only has delivered nothing, they are holding my money ransom because i have not yet sued them and are counting on it. it came out later in a quick breath in between two other unrelated sentences. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemaillisa of sacramento, camarch 10, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingi appreciated the time spent with sheree, the dating coach. i joined ijl in nov 2012, paid the full amount of ,568 for a one year contract with 14 dates. the ideal date, she decided, was a low pressure date for either lunch or a drink after work. ijl knows nothing about someone besides the fact that they have a business card and we can do that on our own. for this company to sell itself as something different is a slick sales job, but for me, not a scam. i like to have all of the facts before i make decisions, and i like to have time to think things through. are guaranteed a certain number of dates (this depends on your contract and price). when i told her that i had decided to not move forward just yet, she couldn't get off of the phone quick enough. after a really bad date, they extended my membership free for 1 month, but guess what? i too was set up with someone i was told was divorced and was not. meaning if a man comes late or does not show up, or is looking for fun or bad behavior they cant control it! her compassionate and confident attitude, along with her intuition and passion for people make her very successful in the matchmaking industry. one said, he'd lied because he eventually planned to become a busy professional. no wonder you people are single,it very sad for you. no one seems to know what they are talking about and they are just reading profiles. of all let me say, i was quite excited to use this service., we have given you many options in regard to your membership and have done our very best to…. these are the actions of recourse i will have to use because ijl's utter lack of business ethic. have not even been on any dates yet and already i am annoyed with ijl. not only did they violate the terms of their agreement, but their response was completely unprofessional. she called again the next day, all excited to talk with me. me,your matches through ijl for over 0 per date, will not be any. and to set me up with women who are twice, and even in some cases, three times the size i am is not going to fly. it is very frustrating to go through that many dates throughout the year and not find 1 woman that i would like to date. this reviewshareshare this review share on facebookshare on twittershare on google plusemailkathleen of sanford, flmarch 15, 2017verified reviewersatisfaction ratingi had my first coach session with shari on march 13. in the minneapolis area alone, we arrange dates for nearly 900 clients every single month! he's no longer in a stage of his life where this service would be beneficial to him. at the court, i called them a professional scam, and when they tried to defend themselves; they said the behavior of male members is out of their control.